Family Get-Away–Woodstock, NH

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Easy. I just want “easy” when I travel with my kids. This trip was quick and fun AND it came with lots of time spent together in nature. We actually threw this trip together at the last minute – which is typical of one of mom’s infamous “adventures.” Sometimes “adventures” don’t turn out the way I envision, but we all agreed that this one was actually really fun.IMG_0610

Woodstock, NH is only a couple of hours away from Boston.  On the way there we stopped at the Lost River Caves – a beautiful, natural gorge. For the adventurous (and flexible) types, there were lots of narrow passageways to slip in and out of and climb through, in, and around. My kids loved it!

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The huge granite boulders and sheer rock walls were amazing and it was lovely to walk the beautiful, sun-dappled trails and bridges which wind through this gorge.

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We stayed overnight at the Woodstock Inn and Brewery. Although my young companions and I did not take advantage of the microbrews, we did like the way the Inn was set up. Our “room” was actually the first floor of a little cottage. There was not a kitchen, but it was plenty big enough to be comfortable for all of us. There was a pull-out sofa and the fireplace and giant tub were a big hit after being outside all day!

The next morning, we were told about a natural water slide directly across the street. This was a huge surprise and made our trip! I don’t know what it is called or how we would have found out about it if we hadn’t asked where we might swim in the area. It was a blast for the kids. Remember to bring your own inflated tube!  (You can buy one in town, if you forget.) This was a perfect place to spend the day.  I sat out in the sun and watched the kids fool around in the water and ride the “rapids”

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The next morning, we ate in the restaurant attached to the Inn, where they offered about a dozen interpretations of eggs benedict and really yummy waffles and chocolate chip pancakes. We did a little more swimming in the rapids and then headed out. On the way home, we stopped at the iconic Clarks Trading Post, where we did rock climbing, rode around on Segway’s, and saw the surprisingly good bear show.

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Apparently, you have not had a complete New England childhood unless you have ridden the train at Clark’s and experienced being chased down by the bizarre Wolf Man on his motorcycle. It was really something, let me tell you!  I don’t think you can find this kind of entertainment anywhere else. I wish I had photos to show you, but I am afraid they would be an inadequate representation of the experience anyway.

Our time away felt much longer than it was and was, most importantly, an easy way to spend time together as a family!

I Want To Go To Africa

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I want to go to Africa. Someday. Soon. Maybe next summer. With my kids.

When I mentioned this, my daughter started complaining that she didn’t want to go anywhere. Sure, she wants to go to Africa, but with her friends. Can you say ”spoiled”?!? Clearly, I have some work to do!

I have a friend who started an orphanage in Africa. Yep, he just up and started an orphanage. Pretty impressive, if you ask me. It is called Zion Care and you can read all about how it started and how you can contribute if you want to help.

My plan is to make my spoiled kids work at the orphanage in Africa for a week or so and then selfishly ruin them again with some kind of fancy safari. Preferably with comfortable beds. And yummy food.

Each time a $5 bill comes into my wallet, I am taking it out and putting it in a jar. (This is not an original idea – the $5 Savings Plan has been going around the blogosphere lately. Taking spoiled children to work at an orphanage in Africa is a totally original idea.)

If you want to copy my idea of going to Africa, feel free. I know I am not the only one with spoiled rotten children. The more spoiled rotten children working at an African orphanage the merrier! Or if you have another goal to save for, that’s fine too.

Starting August 1, I propose we have a little $5 saving competition. Sign up with a comment telling me you are “in” and what your goal is. At the end of the month, we will see who has the most $5 bills saved. We can each send the winner a $5 bill as a prize. If no one else signs up for this contest, I will be sending the winner (me) a $5 prize!  It’s a win-win for everyone!

(Unless of course, if it turns out that I am accidentally running some kind of illegal Ponzi scheme and I have to go to jail. Then I lose. Please let me know if you think this might get me sent to jail. I will immediately cease and desist all gaming on this site. Thanks.)

So, are you “in”? What’s your goal?

100th Post. Yikes.

IMG_0388 - Copy100 posts! Can you believe it? This is my 100th post! I can hardly believe that I have been blogging long enough to get to 100 posts. Phew. That’s a LOT of posts. Just in time to celebrate this big accomplishment…I ran away to an island and neglected my blog.

I have been back for a couple days now, but every time I flip on my computer, log in to my blog and see “99 Posts” staring back at me from the admin page and attempt to write something worthy of a 100th post – I freeze up. No ideas. No insights. No funny. Nothing.

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Then the voices start in. (Now, pretend you are in a little spaceship entering my left ear, making your way past the malleus and incus, twirling through my cochlea, then heading down my auditory nerve straight for my brain. At this point you will start to hear all of the things I hear – helpful messages like: “oh honey, you never had anything interesting to say anyway,” “what makes a silly girl like you think you know anything?” and “maybe you should just stop now dear.”) Then I need to take a nap.

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There was a lot of napping on the island. And skinny dipping. And living without running water and a hot shower everyday. And looking at the moon. And marveling at the power of nature. Lots of time to think about my life, my work, my blog, my kids, and my expanding peri-menopausal waistline. There are many, many areas of plenty perfect to work with here. Lucky me.

As much as I believe my own credo, it has still been very difficult to accept that living a happier, plenty perfect life means letting some things go. I have been driving myself a little nuts lately. And my kids too.

This summer, I want to bring my daily choices back in line with what is important to me. Just like being at the island, I want to get down to the basics and build up from there. I have some fun and useful ideas for deciding what goes and what stays, how to routinize to neutralize, how to turn wishes into wants, and how having a strong “why” can help bring clarity. I will share with you my journey and the plenty perfect ways I am trying to get closer to where I want to be.

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What are you up to this summer?

Your feedback is important to me and your unique perspective and experience paints a more colorful picture for everyone reading this blog. If you relate to what I write, please take a minute and let me know. Or just say “hi” – I really like hearing from you!

Favorite Things Friday: Owning An Island

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On Sunday, I am going to an island. An island OWNED by a family. An island owned by a family who are my friends. An island where you can swim and sunbathe naked if you want to because NO ONE is around!

I grew up in California and nobody I knew OWNED an island. I didn’t know you could even own an island until I moved here. I guess it is the same as owning some land at the beach, but having a whole island to yourself seems sort of different.  It is like owning your own country, but smaller. And you have to pay taxes. Still, you can pretend it is your own country and do pretty much whatever you want. You don’t have any neighbors, after all!

Have you ever stayed on a private island? Did you feel safe? Did you swim or sunbathe naked?

The Plenty Perfect Elastic Stirrup Solution

I predict that you are going to hit yourself in the head and say – “I shudda thought of that!” after you read this post.  I think you are going to forward this post to 10 friends and say “why didn’t we think of this?”  (Yes, please do that – I need readers.  Thank you.)  This plenty perfect solution is so simple, so easy, and so “duh” that I almost feel silly posting it.  The reason I am posting it is that I have not seen this tip ANYWHERE…and I suspect that beneath my simple, forgetful, dopey mom exterior, I just might be a genus.  Oops, I mean a genius.

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When considering my very small suitcase and my week long trip to California and the wide range of weather conditions we were going to encounter, I realized that I could not bring multiple pairs of jeans.  I had to bring one pair of jeans to do both of the jobs I needed them to do – wear with boots and wear with flats – is that too much to ask?  Normally, you might say “Yes, that is too much for one pair of jeans to do” but I am here to say “NO.”  No!!!!   No, that is not too much to ask of your jeans when you equip them with the Plenty Perfect Elastic Stirrup Solution!
 
I have tried everything – the hope for the best method, the fold and tuck method, the fold and tuck into a tall sock method, the mitten clip method and nothing works better than this!  Here it is – the answer to your jeans-lovin’ prayers!
 
 
Sew a button onto each of the inside seams of your jeans (about 4-5″ from the hem) and in a 8″ strip of 1″ wide elastic cut a slit (or two if you want to adjust).  There you have yourself a handy removeable stirrup!  Of course, you should adjust these measurements to suit your personal legs and jeans so that the whole thing is comfortable. 
 
 
That’s all you have to do to keep your jeans in your boots – and when you want to wear flats, just take the strap off!
 
 
One pair of jeans with two very different functions – yay! - how plenty perfect!
 
 
I told you I might be a genus!